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Introduction

Imagine the tug-of-war of emotions when you find yourself caught between two loves. Trying to Love Two Women by The Oak Ridge Boys dives right into that tricky situation, capturing the thrill, confusion, and inevitable heartache of juggling two relationships. Released in 1980, this track was a country hit, and it’s easy to see why – it’s relatable, catchy, and just bold enough to get you thinking.

The song isn’t just about a man in a love triangle; it’s about the universal struggle of trying to satisfy everyone, even when it feels impossible. With lines that are as clever as they are poignant, Trying to Love Two Women reflects the real, human side of romance, temptation, and the pull between choices.

The Oak Ridge Boys brought their signature harmonies and charm, and they knew how to tap into the feeling of being torn between two loves. This song has a bit of everything: humor, honesty, and a touch of old-school wisdom, wrapped in that classic country style. It reminds listeners that sometimes, you have to choose – because trying to balance it all might just end up breaking your heart.

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Lyrics

Trying to love two women is like a ball and chain
Trying to love two women is like a ball and chain
Sometimes the pleasure ain’t worth the strain
It’s a long old grind and it tires your mind
Trying to hold two women is tearing me apart
Trying to hold two women is tearing me apart
One’s got my money, the other’s got my heart
It’s a long old grind and it tires your mind
When you try to please two women, you can’t please yourself
When you try to please two women, you can’t please yourself
At best it’s only half good, a man can’t stock two shelves
It’s a long old grind and it tires your mind
Trying to love two women is like a ball and chain
Trying to love two women is like a ball and chain
Sometimes the pleasure ain’t worth the strain
It’s a long old grind and it tires your mind
Trying to love two women is like a ball and chain
Trying to love two women is like a ball and chain
Sometimes the pleasure ain’t worth the strain
It’s a long old grind and it tires your mind
It’s a long old grind and it tires your mind